I hate to point it out, but based on this there’s never been a better time to get naked. I mean it’s cold and there will be erect nipples, but they’ll mainly be mine because learning excites me and “AH HA” moments don’t have nipples.
If you’ve been “oh-for-fuck-sake-ing” all over the place it’s because it’s not the universe being a dick-waffle, it’s because it’s learning time. There’s a little “AH-HA” in there somewhere – what are you meant to you learn about yourself? About the other person? What new perspective could you take? Is this an opportunity to respond differently, if “how you always do it” doesn’t appear to be working?